So I'd better do it right.". I will say that post-traumatic stress can lead to growth, though post traumatic growth. We do not accept. And so they just stay in the victim right. Mike Sarraille: And, and, and there are, there are new forms of, of therapy, you know, um, you know, cognitive behavioral therapy and things like that, that are very proactive and try to in, you know, integrate you in, you know, back into life. Like, all right man, come here, third arm. And I know that I can talk to these people, you know, and I'm, and I am part of something and I am not alone, you. That, that right there, interesting times are not always good times that I think you just named this podcast, man, that, uh, or this, this episode that that is so true. Hope so. You, you, it's, it's amazing. Mike Sarraille: He is best known as an American singer, producer, and song writer. And, and there, there are different elements across the, uh, the nation, different environments that, that are not as accepting. That's a pretty mature outlook. Everyone has the regrets. And I'm say, this dude guy for his age, he looks freaking good. Um mm-hmm. So first one is, biggest regret of your life in here. Mike Sarraille: And I think that's where a lot of therapy goes wrong, because it's not, it's not solution oriented, you know? Yeah. It doesn't mean you need to, like ev it's like your family. You know, because, because of circumstances surrounding our relationship, it, it, the, the situation just became untenable and, and it was like, we were not, we were growing apart and we were doing, we weren't doing good for each other anymore. Rzeznik declared, "We're going to keep going until this shit stops". John Rzeznik: Help me to help me get through this period. Um, well, uh, we got to play at Red Rocks up in Colorado. And, um, and, um, so, you know, and they would say things like, Look, if you're gonna create art or you're gonna make music or do whatever you're doing, uh, or you're gonna go out and you're gonna make a billion dollars in the stock market, try to leave the world a little bit better than you found it. I've gotta go to the gym every day. Care about me. That, that's insane. It was pretty crazy. As well as walking away from an Italian plane crash in 1999, the Buffalo, New York group also survived a number of perilous van smashes in the bands early days. We have to take action to get shit done. Like, okay, we're going down and we had time to think about it. And I've got this, so this is how I, I painted when people ask. You know, Samma Hagar said something very similar to, to, to us in his interview. But we all need a sense of homecoming and belonging. Oh, something else happened to me and this is a shame and I'm a victim. And there were five kids. I, I found like 10,000 ways not to, uh, to, to do it, or, Yeah. I highly recommend it to anybody. Uh, yeah. Those, those keys for success for you that you, you've tried to live your life by? John Rzeznik: They were soon picked up by a small record label, Celluloid. messages about ILikeYourOldStuff based on my information, Yeah. But you know what, you know what, I just wanted to say this. That's all. Eighteen years ago this week, the Goo Goo Dolls frontman joined Limp Bizkit on stage for a cover of Pink Floyds Wish You Were Here at the America: A Tribute To Heroes charity event in the wake of the Pentagon and World Trade Center attacks. "The good part about being a pessimist is, when something bad happens, you're never really devastated by it," he continues. . Screw that. airplane, interview | 71K views, 921 likes, 37 loves, 39 comments, 69 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from The Howard Stern Show: The Goo Goo Dolls told Howard about the time their plane crashed on the. Um, keep your ego in check. And this guy, this is about mental health. We pay our respect to Elders past and present and to all Um, you know, just like everybody, uh, there's times we really don't agree. But, uh, you know, that's, you know, that happens with brothers all the time, you know, and he is very much my brother in, in, in a lot of ways. Contents 1 Early life 2 Career 2.1 Goo Goo Dolls 2.2 Other activity 3 Musical style 3.1 Influences 3.2 Songwriting Mike Sarraille: And I think a lot of the solutions, I was, I was reading an article about a guy in Laos, okay? And he would tell me, it was like he was preparing me. Now, there are, now there are things that I wanted to talk you about as being in probably the most elite intense group of military people. The lead singer of the Goo Goo Dolls talks about surviving a plane crash, being a Buffalo Bills fan and making a sad song sound happy. Covering 1950's, 1960's, 1970's, 1980's music till now. John Rzeznik is very talented and amazing guitarist which known throughout the world for his performance with his band mates. But it was one of the most accepting places to grow up, you know, eighties, nineties, if you said you were gay, nobody cared. Now I have to make sure I also call them when I'm doing well. And, and I, when I'm talking to another alcoholic, I go, you know, dude, I know you're trying, but this is not gonna work unless it's for you. I've never heard that, but I do, I think I do know where you're going. SUBSCRIBE for more videos: http://bit.ly/2qswmZU Want to know what's going on with Howard Stern. Um, you know, women who have their own identity. I think if my father was able to talk about his experiences, because, you know, he lost his father when he was very, very young. Listen to the full episode above (scroll down for the transcript) and see more from this series below. It joins Talking Heads Once In A Lifetime, Frank Sinatras My Way and Simon & Garfunkels Mrs Robinson as hit songs with And as the unlikely opening word. Um, cuz I'll tell you, I loved my men and women a lot more than I hated the enemy on, on the other side of the battlefield. He was in the Navy. Why do I feel like, like, you know, my wife doesn't understand whatever, you know, it could be, I'm just making stuff up. Thanks for joining us on another episode of the Men's Journal Everyday Warrior podcast. ON STAGE: Goo Goo Dolls playing Riverworks his Sunday. And, um, I don't know, it was like, it was shock really. Yeah, I know what you mean. Uh, you know what I mean, man. I had to get a restraining order after someone broke into my house. Oh, wait a minute. When John F. Kennedy Jr. died in a plane crash in 1999, the media came to a quick conclusion the so-called " Kennedy curse " was alive and well. Um, but anyway, on that aside, but, um, it caused me a lot, a lot of fear that I couldn't control. Boom. We, we, we love to, to put buzz words out there, but yet we don't follow them through behavior or action. I got defiant toward the people who loved me and were trying to help me. You get up 11 times. I like, well, I think we, we, we hit on, on this before. You did say it earlier, man. Rzeznik identifies the September 11 terrorist attacks as the point when the United States descended into a bleak phase of history. And they say, they say, Oh, you're the baby. Oh, I, I went to Colorado for school. It's like we all have potential. Welcome, John. Um, you know, and you just kind of, you, you yet adapt and, and, and make it work. [citation needed], After the Goo Goo Dolls' equipment was stolen from a van in New York City (including Rzeznik's Marshall JCM800 amplifier and his only guitar at the time), following the recording of their 1989 album, Jed, a custom, yellow Stratocaster-style guitar (later nicknamed "Boing") was made for Rzeznik by ESP. So what do they do the next week? Um, it took a long time for me, but here's the deal. John Rzeznik: But John, we, we end this with a series of what we call the hard questions, man. It's like, this is not healthy. Oh, we're so sorry for you. Rzeznik is known for his use of alternate guitar tunings in his songs. Until they don't. And then, um, I don't know, then I think we're gonna go to South America. Try to keep your word. Google dolls.com. Is that, is that accurate? Not that they knew what was coming, but, uh, you've gotta be appreciative that. Mike Sarraille: And that, that right there, I know means the world to me. I had to go to rehab five times, you know, before I committed to it, you know, And, and then I had to spend three months there. And there seems to be, now in the modern world of the future, I think there's an epidemic of loneliness, especially among men disenfranchisement. exclusives, interviews, competitions & more. Or, or it reminds 'em of a great time in their life. Did your parents raise you that way? And that's why I think it's, it's the, you know, people who really are suffering with PTSD and things like that, they really need to be cared for by people that can be trusted. Cool. But I've seen people who have real PTSD and my little annoyances and neurosis don't stack up to what that really is. They say, Hey, I, I've suffered this and I'm a victim. But, but, but, uh, like most beautiful things in life, I mean, the women in my life have always been strong and, and compassionate. Uh, if I come into a doctor and say, Hey, I have mental health issues, they can't say no, you don't. This guy was working in the rice patties. Rzeznik has said that he would "basically sit there at night and just start tuning my guitar strings up and down until something sounded really cool." So did I, my my first experience. And hopefully we, we've achieved that. For a 15, 16 year old, my, my biggest drama in life was, uh, probably a girl breaking up with me. And, and you know, I mean, there's a little satire on the album because the, I I, I'm always amazed by the absurdity of celebrity in the year 2022, you know, and probably cuz of my age, but, but, uh, some of it I'm just like, what? Um, you know, and, and, and, and, you know, we still meet up every day on tour. It's like musicians, they're great musicians and then there are musicians that are not that good. I mean, we were, we were so poor. John Rzeznik: So I knew that I could get out, but I had to keep exposing myself to that fear and that anxiety until it didn't affect me. John. We have to release the kinetic energy inside ourselves. about ILikeYourOldStuff and their record label based on my It depends on the person. And I, and, and that's something that I've, I've, I've tried to take to heart, you know, I mean, you know, there's music that's medicine. There is a whole psychological level that goes into that. Yeah. Mike Sarraille: I mean, they lost hundreds on du day alone in a matter of minutes. We knew why we existed. John Rzeznik: This is my problem. More than 30 years since the Goo Goo Dolls released their debut album, Rzeznik holds hope music has the power to bring people together, no matter how dark the times. That, that is so beautiful, man. It is amazing that that happens. He has used many variations such as the Stratocaster, Telecaster, Jaguar and a "Halfcaster" (a Stratocaster cut in half). Um, you know, um, that old, that old message of shut up and just persevere, you know, it, there's a component of that that's necessary, but you also need to have people to talk to. Know. It's, so, again, man, it's, it's, I love this because you haven't read this book and you're basically walking through the entire book. Since the late '90s, Rzeznik has used Fender electric guitars. That's what I up, Mike Sarraille: [22][23] He started dating Melina Gallo in 2005 and married her in Malibu, California, on July 26, 2013. And that, that's, that's what growing up in a place like Buffalo is like, you take care of your family no matter what, you know? And it became a metaphor in my life to, to keep going, you know? John Rzeznik: Well. So I felt as though I needed to, I felt the only path for me to get over this fear was to move through it and get to the other side of it. Weve had a few run-ins with mentally unstable fans and its a little bit scary, Rzeznik explains. Mike Sarraille: If I'm afraid to talk to someone, I have to go talk to that person, you know? My dad was a mailman, my mom was a school teacher. . Was that innate or was it because you worked your freaking ass off? Well, I mean, I'm a real addict because when they tried to do the intervention thing on me, I laughed. Uh, yes, you probably have innate talent, but everywhere I've been, all my success, the product who I am has always been coaches and mens. data and in accordance with the. Mike Sarraille: It was a moderately successful pop hit. So I had, I had a reason to talk to every pretty girl in the bar. John Rzeznik: One of my sister's boyfriends threw me in the deep end of the pool, just threw me in the pool. You know, and that, that may not work for other people. You. And he did until, until he just couldn't anymore. Um, I believe it was innate, but that being said, you gotta work, you gotta do the work. I agree. That's good to hear. Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islanders. I was a recon Marine in, in my initial days in the military, and we were stuck on a desert hill for two weeks overlooking the vastness of the desert. And you have to look at your, not you, I have to look at my failures as a stepping stone to the next victory, you know? That was the real push for the surveillance state. And you've gotta have the balls to walk away from any situation. So, you know, there, you know, and to, and the thing is, when, when you're in a vulnerable position, there's no shortage of people who are gonna try to take advantage of that. Um, I was afraid of everything. concert in New York, Rzeznik performed a duet version of the song Iris with Canadian pop-punk singer Avril Lavigne. It's like, no, I'm not the baby. The Goo Goo Dolls also performed the song "Name" at a live concert with LeAnn Rimes. He performed three touch-and-go landings before heading out over the Pacific Ocean. Under Celluloid, they released their first eponymous album on a $750 budget (later the re-prints would be referred to as "First Release"). Born John Joseph Theodore Rzeznik, Johnny Rzeznik rose from a humble working-class background to become the frontman for one of the world's most popular rock and roll bands, the Goo Goo Dolls. Politicians would contact us to raise money for them, but I got to the point during the last election where I was just like, Nah, its not going to happen, because the entire system is broken on both sides. Get official Goo Goo Dolls merch and vinyl here. And again, that's my opinion of regardless if you have mental health issues, and first off, lemme tell you that somebody said it, great mental health issues does not mean mental weakness. [6][7] Both of Rzeznik's parents were musicians, playing the clarinet and flute. Yeah. I can't take care of you. John Rzeznik: And they just, so they're getting that i, I call it negative, uh, you know, affirmation. I keep liquor in my house. John Rzeznik has taken part in a great number of music projects, one of which is in his popular band Goo Goo Dolls. I truly felt that. John Rzeznik: Sometimes he would be like, Get in the car, we're getting outta here cause it's all women. Yeah. And wherever I get together with musicians there, that's my tribe. Um Right. Well, like some music, you know, it's like, there are people in my life who are medicine to me. Did you ever pinpoint through your healing process, this is why I was using this to mask this or this is why I became dependent on it. No, because they're entitled to them because their life experiences are different than yours. But, uh, um, but there are people in my life who are, are medicine and there are people in my life who are like candy and I, and I hang with them and talk to them when I just wanna have a good time. Mike Sarraille: It's like the, the, the, we all feel like victims sometimes, you know? Um, I, I, I do agree with people being more vulnerable, uh, discussing their problems, cuz that's the best way to get through them. Okay, Mike Sarraille: And lastly, again, thank you to our sponsor, Pendleton Whiskey. What's the biggest crowd you've played? He said, Try, try to follow your word. Thankfully it all worked out.. I love making drinks. And I mean, and it does take discipline and it's like, I gotta get up. I am always the bartender. Walk away. Yeah. And they found out what can this guy do? Joahn Rzeznik is the founding member. This attracted the attention of a larger record label, Metal Blade, who released their next few albums. Um, and I was quite honestly, I was, was like, you know, we were broke. Um, Right. That hasnt changed about me, but if you mention, Gee, wouldnt it be nice if everyone could go and see a doctor? suddenly youre branded a socialist whos ruining the country. Frontman Johnny Rzeznik admits jack-knifed wrecks aren't the only perils facing your average rock star: unhinged fans practising witchcraft are just as dangerous. Because all success is built on failure after failure, after failure after failure. Um, yeah, it's broken sleep on a bus, um, you know, inconsistent food, uh, you know, just things like that. Having lost both of his parents, he was brought up by his four older sisters, Phyllis, Fran, Gladys and Kate, with help from their cousin, John Guljas. And this is 35 years later. Yeah. So what I had to do, what I had to do to get over that anxiety and that fear was, it was the first time we went out on tour and we were staying in these crap motels. Why You, you are, I mean, four decades of impact on the world through your music. Is that like fuel for you? I mean, it doesn't matter what you're doing, if you have a collective group around you that all have the same sense of purpose. Yeah. I found these candles burning and this weird little altar and a box of strange objects. Yeah. We went to war for close to 20 years, but that generation faced a level of combat that far exceeds what we saw in the battlefield. - eNotes.com", "John Rzeznik: "I am still looking for that perfect song. The biggest regret in my life, and I thought about this, I was, I was in the gym yesterday and I was thinking like the biggest regret in my life and I'm just like, Wow, there are a lot, you know, small ones and big ones, you know, but, but, um, you know, wow, I, I regret it can't be something like, Oh, regret, I didn't talk to that really beautiful woman 30 years ago, whatever. connection to land, waters, communities and culture. John Rzeznik: That's stepping in front of 150,000 people than stepping onto the battlefield. You know, that's mostly it. The famous rock star is known as a very charismatic and handsome person, and he has a lot of fans. This is a Saturday, Oct. 11, 1997 photo of a Long Ez plane in Salisbury, Md., similar to the plane that crashed in California's Monterey Bay on Sunday, Oct. 12, 1997, killing singer John Denver. I think that our, as, as human beings, we need purpose. It's, and it's stalling me out. Join us to get the latest music news, reviews, playlists, I, I think emotional strength is very much a part of, uh, of grit. There definitely was a, a, a, I would say a higher element of emotional strength, mental strength within that generation. Mike Sarraille: Isn't. And they may reject me. Probably ending my first marriage. [26], Rzeznik performing on September 2, 2013, in Norfolk, Nebraska, The song was written and performed by Rzeznik in the movie, but it was performed by, Learn how and when to remove these template messages, Learn how and when to remove this template message, "Beach Slang offers up the summer anthem of a bygone era", "Goo Goo Dolls vs.

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